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Welcome to Life with Tia. Don't know how well I'll do posting but figured I'd give it a shot. What I post may only be of interest to me, but if there are people who want to know what's up with me or how my brain works, or simply have nothing better to do, then read on. Please post comments. I need the encouragement and the opposing point of view (not that there will be any). Thanks for reading & posting. Hugs, Tia

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Have you ever had one of those days?

I've been dealing with a situation at work for which I don't think there's a solution. I hate that! I'm a solution kind of person. A former pastor of mine and dear friend once described me as "A Fixer." Nothing makes me crazier than a problem / situation with out a solution.

What I'm constantly learning is that when you're dealing with people often times a solution is not possible.

In this particular situation it seems to me to be coming down to a "he said / she said" situation. Each person has their own perspective on what happened. Unfortunately those perspectives don't match up. Either someone is trying to "scam" me or we're just going to have to agree to disagree.

The problem with that (agree to disagree) is that I don't believe that one of the parties involved wants to hear that or accept that as the result. So now what do I do?

People!! You can't live with them and you can't shoot them. NUTS!!!

I'm glad to have a blog where I can vent. Now it's off to find some advil.

Any thoughts?

1 comment:

Bing said...

Ah, but Tia, you're wrong. You CAN shoot them, but you'd then have to suffer the consequences, which may or may not be worth the crime. It all depends on your perspective.

When I was Head Band Nerd in town, I WANTED to shoot them all, because then I got 3 squares, a bed and ONE phone call a day rather than the squillion whiny calls I got from the Band Nerd society every day.

It's all a matter of preference.